Birth Feelings | Postpartum Therapy & Birth Trauma Support in Santa Monica, CA

Birth Feelings · Santa Monica, CA

Postpartum Therapy & Birth Trauma Support in Santa Monica, CA

Santa Monica is one of the most beautiful places to live in Southern California. It is also one of the most high-pressure. Between the cost of living, the cultural expectations around motherhood, and the isolation that new parents often feel even in a city full of people, the postpartum period in Santa Monica can be quietly overwhelming.

At Birth Feelings, we specialize in exactly this: the grief of a birth that didn't go as planned, the anxiety that arrives with a new baby, the identity shift of becoming a mother, and the weight of doing it all in a city that rarely slows down. You don't have to navigate this alone.

Dr. Rebecca Branda, PsyD, PMH-C, licensed psychologist and founder of Birth Feelings in Santa Monica, CA
Services

How We Support Santa Monica Mothers

We offer specialized maternal mental health care across the full arc of new parenthood. If you're not sure which service fits, reach out and we'll help you find the right starting point.

EMDR Trauma Therapy

Heal from the past and move forward with confidence. Specialized EMDR packages for first-time moms, second-time+ moms, and VBAC moms.

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Postpartum Depression & Anxiety

Find relief and feel more like yourself again. Therapy for postpartum depression and anxiety, helping you reduce overwhelm and reconnect in motherhood.

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ADHD in Moms & Parenthood

Support for focus, overwhelm, and balance in the demands of everyday parenting. For mothers navigating ADHD, whether newly recognized or long understood.

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Postpartum & Motherhood Identity

Therapeutic exploration of the identity shifts that accompany becoming a mother, including grief, relationship changes, and rediscovering who you are now.

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Birth Trauma Coaching

Trimester-by-trimester support for mothers planning a VBAC or navigating a new pregnancy after a difficult birth. Available via telehealth.

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Birth Story Processing

A structured, compassionate space to revisit your birth experience, so it becomes part of your story rather than something you keep reliving.

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Postpartum Support

Postpartum Depression and Anxiety in Santa Monica

Postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety are far more common than most new mothers are told. In Santa Monica and across the Westside, high-achieving, high-functioning women are often the last to seek help, because on the outside, everything looks fine. The beach is beautiful. The baby is healthy. And yet something feels deeply wrong.

Birth Feelings works with mothers who are experiencing:

  • Postpartum depression: persistent sadness, emotional numbness, disconnection from your baby or your sense of self
  • Postpartum anxiety: racing thoughts, intrusive fears, hypervigilance, difficulty sleeping even when the baby sleeps
  • Postpartum rage: anger that feels disproportionate or frightening, often a less-discussed symptom of perinatal mood disorders
  • Mixed presentations: many mothers experience overlapping symptoms that don't fit neatly into a single diagnosis

You do not need a formal diagnosis to begin therapy. If something feels off in the weeks or months after birth, that is reason enough to reach out.

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Birth Trauma & Processing

Birth Trauma Coaching and Birth Story Processing

Not every difficult birth looks like an emergency. Trauma is defined by how an experience is held in the body and mind, not by how dramatic it appears to outside observers. Many of the mothers we work with were told their births were "successful" and still carry grief, fear, or confusion about what happened.

Our Birth Trauma Coaching and Birth Story Processing services give you a structured, compassionate space to revisit your birth experience. This work is especially meaningful for women who:

  • Feel they were not heard or respected during labor and delivery
  • Experienced an unexpected C-section, intervention, or complication
  • Have intrusive memories or flashbacks related to their birth
  • Feel guilt or shame about their birth experience even when outcomes were positive
  • Are pregnant again and carrying fear from a previous birth into a new pregnancy

Birth story processing isn't about relitigating what went wrong. It's about helping your nervous system integrate what happened, so that the birth becomes part of your story rather than something that is still happening to you.

EMDR Therapy

EMDR Therapy for Birth Trauma and Postpartum PTSD

For mothers whose birth experience or postpartum period has left lasting traumatic imprints, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy is one of the most evidence-supported treatments available. At Birth Feelings, we offer EMDR as a core modality for processing:

  • Perinatal and postpartum PTSD
  • Traumatic birth memories
  • Prior pregnancy loss, miscarriage, or infant loss
  • Medical trauma from fertility treatments or complicated pregnancies

EMDR does not require you to narrate your trauma in detail to heal from it. Many clients find it more accessible than traditional talk therapy for experiences that feel too raw or too fragmented to put into words. Sessions are available virtually, which means Santa Monica mothers can access specialized care without navigating traffic on the 10 or finding parking on a hard day.

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ADHD & Parenthood

ADHD in Moms and the Postpartum Period

For mothers with ADHD, the postpartum period often triggers an acute worsening of symptoms. The disruption to structure, the sleep deprivation, the cognitive load of new parenting tasks, and the hormonal shifts of the fourth trimester combine to create conditions that are genuinely harder for ADHD brains to navigate.

We work with mothers who are newly diagnosed, previously diagnosed but finding their existing strategies no longer hold, or struggling with executive function and emotional regulation that may have an underlying neurological basis. This work is strength-based and practical, grounded in both therapeutic processing and real-world strategies for functioning as an ADHD parent.

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Postpartum Identity

Postpartum Identity: Who Are You Now?

One of the least-discussed dimensions of early motherhood is matrescence, the profound identity transformation that occurs when a woman becomes a mother. In Santa Monica's achievement-oriented culture, where professional identity can feel inseparable from self-worth, this shift can feel destabilizing in ways that are hard to name.

We address the full scope of postpartum identity: grief for the self that existed before children, relationship strain after a baby arrives, career identity conflicts, the loneliness of early motherhood, and finding a sense of self that integrates who you were, who you are now, and who you are becoming. This isn't just about processing feelings. It's about rebuilding a coherent sense of self.

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Location & Service Area

Serving Santa Monica and the Westside LA Community

Birth Feelings serves mothers throughout Santa Monica and the surrounding Westside communities, including Brentwood, Pacific Palisades, Venice, Mar Vista, and Culver City. Virtual sessions make it possible to access specialized postpartum and birth trauma support without leaving your neighborhood or your home.

If you're in Santa Monica and looking for a therapist who specializes in birth, postpartum mental health, and the emotional arc of new motherhood, Birth Feelings was built for exactly that.

Office Address3231 Ocean Park Ste 115
Santa Monica, CA 90405

HoursMonday – Friday, 9am – 6pm
Virtual sessions available throughout California

Also serving:

Brentwood Pacific Palisades Venice Mar Vista Culver City West Los Angeles Marina del Rey
Questions & Answers

Frequently Asked Questions About Postpartum Therapy in Santa Monica

Postpartum therapy is a specialized form of mental health support focused on the emotional, psychological, and identity challenges that can arise during pregnancy, childbirth, and the months (and sometimes years) after having a baby. While general therapy addresses a broad range of life challenges, postpartum therapy is specifically trained toward perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, conditions like postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, birth trauma, and perinatal OCD, as well as the identity shift that comes with becoming a parent. Therapists who specialize in this area understand the hormonal, relational, and social context of new parenthood in ways that generalist therapists may not.

No. You do not need a formal diagnosis to reach out or begin therapy. Many of the mothers we work with describe a feeling that something is off: persistent sadness, anxiety that doesn't lift, difficulty bonding, or a sense of not recognizing themselves. That is a valid reason to seek support. A diagnosis, if appropriate, can be explored together during the intake process.

The baby blues, characterized by mood swings, tearfulness, and emotional sensitivity, typically appear within the first few days after birth and resolve on their own within two weeks. Postpartum depression is more persistent, more intense, and more disruptive to daily life. Signs include feelings of hopelessness or emptiness that don't lift, difficulty functioning, withdrawal from your baby or partner, persistent anxiety or racing thoughts, or feeling like you are not yourself. If your symptoms have lasted more than two weeks, or feel severe at any point, reaching out to a mental health professional is appropriate at any time.

Yes. Birth Feelings offers both in-person and virtual sessions. In-person sessions are available at 3231 Ocean Park Boulevard, Suite 115, Santa Monica, CA 90405. Virtual therapy is available for clients throughout Los Angeles County, including Santa Monica, Brentwood, Pacific Palisades, Culver City, and the broader Westside. Virtual sessions offer the same therapeutic depth as in-person work.

Yes. Birth trauma is not determined by medical outcome. Many mothers who experienced births that were medically uncomplicated still carry significant distress about the experience. Feeling dismissed, losing control of the situation, unexpected interventions, or the gap between the birth you hoped for and the one you had can all produce a trauma response. Birth trauma is defined by the impact of the experience on the person who lived it, not by whether something went wrong in a clinical sense.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a structured, evidence-based therapy originally developed to treat post-traumatic stress disorder. It uses bilateral stimulation (typically eye movements, tapping, or sound) to help the brain reprocess distressing memories so they carry less emotional charge. EMDR is increasingly used with postpartum and birth trauma clients because birth experiences, especially traumatic ones, can become stuck memories that the brain continues to respond to as though they are happening now. Birth Feelings offers EMDR as a core therapy modality, with specialized packages for first-time moms, second-time+ moms, and VBAC moms.

The length of therapy varies depending on what you're working through and your goals. Some clients find significant relief within 8 to 12 sessions focused on a specific concern. Others engage in longer-term work to address ongoing anxiety, identity shifts, or relationship changes that come with parenthood. At Birth Feelings, the pace is guided by you. There is no predetermined endpoint.

Birth Feelings primarily serves mothers, pregnant women, and people in the perinatal period. Partners are welcome in sessions when the work involves relationship support, navigating the transition to parenthood together, communication around postpartum experiences, or supporting a partner who is struggling.

Birth Feelings is out-of-network with insurance providers. A superbill, an itemized receipt you can submit directly to your insurance for potential reimbursement, is provided at the end of each month. Contact us directly to discuss your specific coverage and payment options before scheduling.

Research supports the effectiveness of virtual therapy for postpartum depression, anxiety, and birth trauma. For many new parents in Santa Monica, virtual sessions remove a significant barrier, whether that's finding childcare, navigating traffic, or simply leaving the house on a hard day. Virtual sessions offer the same therapeutic depth as in-person work.

Ready to Begin?

Taking the first step toward support is often the hardest part. You do not need to be in crisis to reach out. You do not need to have the right words for what you are feeling. You simply need to feel like something is off, and be willing to explore it with someone who has dedicated their practice to exactly this.

Birth Feelings is not a crisis service. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988, or go to your nearest emergency room.