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Birth Feelings

Maternal Mental Health Therapy in Santa Monica

A safe space for all your birth feelings.

Motherhood changes us in ways we can prepare for, and in ways we never see coming.

Sometimes the change begins with a birth that felt frightening, disappointing, or outside of your control. Sometimes it appears later, when you realize you are more anxious than you used to be, quicker to anger, constantly overwhelmed, or struggling to find yourself underneath everything your family needs from you. You may look at the mother you have become and wonder why she feels so different from the one you imagined.

These experiences do not always fit neatly into a diagnosis. They are often part of the complicated emotional work of becoming a mother: carrying what happened before, adapting to what is happening now, and figuring out who you want to be moving forward.

Birth Feelings is a place to understand that story.

  • Heal Your Past
  • Embrace Your Present
  • Empower Your Future
  • Birth Trauma Therapy
  • Postpartum Support
  • EMDR for Mothers
  • ADHD Assessment
  • ADHD Support for Mothers
  • Santa Monica, CA
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Your therapist

Meet Dr. Rebecca Branda

What I've Come to Understand

I'm Dr. Branda, a licensed clinical psychologist and perinatal mental health certified clinician based in Santa Monica, California. My work combines clinical expertise with a deep understanding of the emotional complexity that surrounds pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.

My own journey into parenthood began with an emergency C-section, followed by a successful VBAC. Experiencing both sides of that journey gave me profound insight into the importance of supportive guidance and the empowerment that comes from reclaiming your voice in birth.

When your birth story or early postpartum period feels chaotic, it shifts how you experience motherhood, magnifying feelings of overwhelm, heightening anxiety, and deepening postpartum depression. For women navigating unaddressed or late-diagnosed ADHD, these emotional demands can feel even more overwhelming, making everyday transitions feel insurmountable.

How I Work With Mothers

Through individual therapy, trauma-informed care, EMDR, and specialized ADHD assessment and support, I help women navigate the complex intersection where birth trauma, neurodivergence, and postpartum mood disorders overlap. Many mothers are diagnosed with ADHD later in life, often realizing that a combination of past trauma and sensory or executive function overload is amplifying their struggles.

My role is to provide a safe, compassionate space where your feelings are validated, your full story is honored, and your healing can begin.

Training and credentials

  • PsyD, George Washington University
  • PMH-C, Postpartum Support International
  • EMDR Trained, Institute for Creative Mindfulness
  • Licensed in California and Illinois

Services

How we can work together

Sessions are individual, in person in Santa Monica or online throughout California and Illinois.

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    Birth Trauma / EMDR Therapy

    Heal from the past and move forward with confidence. Specialized EMDR for processing difficult or traumatic birth experiences, perinatal PTSD, and birth memories that feel stuck. Packages available for first-time moms, VBAC prep, and second-time+ moms.

    Learn more about Birth Trauma / EMDR Therapy
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    Postpartum Depression & Anxiety

    You may find yourself lying awake even when the baby is sleeping, worrying about things you cannot turn off, or moving through the day feeling heavier and less like yourself than you expected. Postpartum depression and anxiety can make motherhood feel harder to settle into, even when everything looks fine from the outside. Therapy can help you understand what is happening and begin to feel more like yourself again.

    Learn more about Postpartum Depression & Anxiety
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    Anxiety Therapy

    Whether your anxiety is tied to your birth experience, your baby's safety, or a growing sense that something isn't right, therapy offers a space to understand what's driving it and find a way through.

    Learn more about Anxiety Therapy
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    CBT Therapy

    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy works by identifying the connection between your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. At Birth Feelings, CBT is a core part of how we work with anxiety during pregnancy, postpartum recovery, and the transition into parenthood.

    Learn more about CBT Therapy
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    ADHD Therapy

    At Birth Feelings, ADHD therapy is designed for women and mothers navigating the complex relationship between an ADHD mind and the demands of modern parenthood. You don't need a formal diagnosis to begin.

    Learn more about ADHD Therapy
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    ADHD Assessment

    You may have always had a sense that your brain works a little differently, but never had a reason to look too closely. Then motherhood added more schedules, decisions, interruptions, and things to remember, and the systems that once helped you keep up stopped being enough. An ADHD assessment can help you understand whether there is a reason things have always felt harder than they seemed to for everyone else.

    Learn more about ADHD Assessment

Birth Feelings

Where Healing Meets Understanding

At Birth Feelings, we believe the emotional experience of becoming a mother matters just as much as what happened medically. Birth, postpartum, and motherhood can change the way you see yourself, your relationships, and the life you thought you would have. Sometimes that means carrying a birth that still feels unresolved; other times it means realizing that the demands of motherhood have brought old patterns, anxiety, overwhelm, or ADHD into sharper focus.

Our work is not only about feeling less anxious, less overwhelmed, or more organized. It is about understanding why you feel the way you do, making sense of what motherhood has brought to the surface, and helping you feel more grounded and connected to yourself again. You deserve a place where the whole story matters.

Book a free 15-min consultation

The Birth Feelings Difference

  • Expert

    Led by Dr. Rebecca Branda, PsyD, PMH-C, with advanced training and certification in perinatal mental health through Postpartum Support International.

  • Compassionate

    You'll never be dismissed, minimized, or told to "just move on." Your experience is taken seriously and met with genuine care.

  • Trauma-Informed

    Care is adapted to your capacity, your history, and your nervous system, not a standardized checklist. This is where healing begins.

  • Virtual and In-Person Sessions

    Sessions designed to meet you where you are, whether in person in Santa Monica or online throughout California and Illinois.

  • Attunement Approach

    Therapy that goes beyond symptom relief to meaningful change in how you feel, think, and move through motherhood.

Begin your healing

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What you carry into motherhood does not stay in one moment. It can shape how you see yourself, how you respond to your children, how you move through your relationships, and how you understand the person you are becoming.

By making space for those experiences now, you can begin to understand what has been stirred up, what you want to hold onto, and what you are ready to change. You deserve to feel more grounded, connected, and at home in yourself. Let's begin.

Free resource

The Well Mother Checklist

The Well Mother Checklist is a gentle, research-informed self-assessment designed to help you explore how birth trauma may be showing up in your life. It can guide you toward greater understanding and help you decide if EMDR therapy or another healing path is right for you.

You do not have to navigate this journey alone.

Start here

Biweekly reflections

Birth Feelings on the Blog

Every other week on the Birth Feelings blog, I write about the emotional and psychological layers of birth, motherhood, and ADHD: how they can heal us, hurt us, and change who we are. For mothers navigating the tender terrain of a life that has changed, and for anyone who supports them.

What I write about

  • Postpartum emotions (anxiety, depression, and rage)
  • Birth trauma and how to begin healing
  • Attachment and bonding after birth
  • Choices in birth and what you can advocate for
  • Support in partnership and in community
  • High-risk, IVF, or complicated journeys
  • Reclaiming identity and trust in your body
  • The mental load of motherhood and emotional overwhelm
  • ADHD and motherhood, from late diagnosis to daily life

Written by Dr. Rebecca Branda, a psychologist and mother who's lived it, studied it, and continues to grow through it. New posts every other week.

Read the blog

Common questions

Frequently Asked Questions

  • What is Birth Feelings, and what kind of therapy do you offer?

    Birth Feelings is a perinatal mental health practice in Santa Monica, California, led by Dr. Rebecca Branda, a licensed clinical psychologist. We work with women through pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum years, and with mothers navigating ADHD. Therapy here draws on EMDR, trauma-informed care, and CBT. ADHD assessments are also available for adults who want formal clarity. Sessions are offered in person in Santa Monica and online across California and Illinois.

  • What is birth trauma, and how do I know if I experienced it?

    Birth trauma is a psychological response to a birth experience that felt frightening, out of control, or overwhelming, regardless of the medical outcome. It can show up in subtle ways. Maybe you find yourself replaying moments from your birth. Maybe you feel numb or disconnected when the subject comes up. Maybe you're struggling to bond with your baby, or noticing that something feels unresolved weeks or months later. It can happen after any type of birth, including births that were medically successful.

  • Do you offer telehealth therapy?

    Yes. Birth Feelings offers telehealth therapy for clients located anywhere in California. In-person sessions are available at the Santa Monica office. Birth Trauma Coaching is available to clients anywhere in the United States.

  • What is the difference between the baby blues and postpartum depression?

    The baby blues are a common, short-term emotional adjustment affecting many women in the first one to two weeks after birth. They typically include tearfulness, mood fluctuations, and mild anxiety, and they resolve on their own. Postpartum depression is different. It is more intense, lasts longer, and interferes with daily functioning. If feelings of sadness, disconnection, guilt, or anxiety persist beyond two weeks or feel overwhelming at any point, reaching out to a perinatal mental health specialist is the right step.

  • Do I need a formal ADHD diagnosis to start therapy?

    No. Many women who work with Birth Feelings come without a formal ADHD diagnosis. What brings them is recognition: a set of patterns that finally sounds like their experience. If you've spent years feeling constantly behind, overwhelmed, or like the demands of motherhood are harder for you than for others, that's a valid place to begin. Birth Feelings offers ADHD assessment if you'd like formal clarity, but it isn't required to start therapy.

  • Does Birth Feelings accept insurance?

    Dr. Rebecca Branda is an out-of-network provider. At the end of each month, you will receive a superbill to submit to your insurance for reimbursement.

    Rate Accommodations Insurance companies may recognize perinatal and women’s mental health, particularly the intersection of ADHD and maternal mental health, as a highly specialized field. They may reimburse you up to 100% of the cost of treatment if they agree there is not an in-network provider who can reasonably provide the specialized care you need.

  • If I want to call my insurance in advance, what do you recommend I ask them?

    Birth Feelings is committed to helping you understand your coverage so that you feel comfortable making the financial commitment to therapy. Helpful questions to ask include:

    • Does my plan include out-of-network coverage for mental health?
    • What is my out-of-network outpatient mental health services annual deductible? And what portion of that deductible have I met this year?
    • What is your usual rate for an individual therapy session for a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles?
    • What percentage of an individual $300 session with an out-of-network provider do you cover?
    • Are there any annual session limits?
    • Is approval required from my primary care physician?
  • How do I get started?

    The first step is a free 15-minute consultation. You can schedule directly through the booking link on this page. During that conversation, you'll have the chance to share what you're navigating and ask any questions about the practice or process. From there, we'll determine whether Birth Feelings is the right fit and discuss next steps.

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